Mornings, Now with More Purpose

It wasn’t until this year that I began to understand the joy of mornings. A chronic night owl with occasional insomnia, I looked at any day requiring a 7 a.m. wake up as another dubious battle to be waged.

I got a foot in the door, or I guess out of the door, with purposeful mornings this year. For the second half of this year I didn’t miss a week of running at least two mornings. The other mornings, I spent getting a head start on work, or sifting through my often neglected Google Reader subscriptions. It was a start.

In 2013, I want to make mornings more meaningful.

coffee and colored pencilsMore reading. And writing.
The old school reader in me still loves thumbing through pages, the smell of books, the gloss of magazines. I think I need more book store and library trips to replenish my stack of actual print material. If I want to be sure I take the time I need to write, it must be in the morning, before the barrage of email and urgency of work takes over for the day.

Better breakfasts.
Once I get invested in tasks in the a.m., I can get lost in them like no other time of the day. I get my best work done in the quiet of my home before the sun rises. Sometimes I get so focused, I lose all track of time and forget to eat breakfast until it’s too late. I’d like to explore some make ahead breakfast recipes.

Let’s get physical.
On the days that start with fresh air and getting the blood flowing, I feel more alert and focused for the rest of the day. I don’t want to run every morning, but would like to walk my dogs on the off days.

Creative mornings.
I was really inspired by the inspiration board exercise and the rush of ideas that came afterwards. The next day, I woke and made a mini painting. I won’t always have time for a major project, but a few doodles should be manageable any morning.

Why the shift?
I’m not sure what happened. I may owe this shift to this year’s focus on my health. It could be that my workplace adopted a freedom policy. For the first time I had no guilt about either sleeping in, or getting up early and designing my mornings to be just the way I like them. Maybe it wasn’t the morning so much as the rushing around and commuting that I resisted all of these years.

I’ve just scratched the surface with mornings. In 2013, I’m looking forward to filling my early hours with more purpose.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “What new traditions do you want to start this year?”

Something Near Therapy

By the time Thanksgiving break rolled around this year, I was pretty desperate for a few extra days of rest and family time. After breakfast on Thanksgiving morning, I put on an apron, ready to tackle what for some might feel like a chore, but for me is something near therapy. I am referring to the important business of pie baking.

Part of baking is the exact science of grams and heat, leveling scoops of flour, measuring out hunks of butter. On the other hand, mixing it all together taps into that baker’s intuition of when the dough just feels right. It unlocks the same type of builder brain I once engaged rolling out slabs of clay to make ceramics. At some point the hands take over, and my mind can let go. Just give me a warm kitchen and a rolling pin, and I can get lost in the process.

sweet potato pecan pie

That morning I rolled out five balls of dough for pumpkin, cherry and sweet potato pecan pies. With each lump of dough transformed, another layer of stress melted away.

And I haven’t gotten even gotten to the pie-eating part yet.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “What did you do this year when things got hectic? How did you unwind?”

Fire in the Sky

Indiana knows how to crown clouds with the setting sun. An exact replica I could never capture. Instead, I took the idea of fire in the sky quite literally and lit a fluffy cloud aflame.

Fire in the Sky, painting by Sara McGuyer

I am an inpatient dabbler in art. The ideas come and I want to get them down on paper or canvas quickly, then move on. In an art class during my freshman year of college, the teacher observed incorrectly: “You draw with the confidence of a senior.” Less than confidence, it’s an urgency to finish, one that I find tough to shake. My haste makes for art that garbles the original idea, often leads to abandoned work, or even discourages trying in the first place.

Sometimes I can will myself to slow down. Other times, I try to fill the need to create with a quick win.

I made this ode to Indiana this morning because in reflecting on 2012 creative projects, I was feeling low that I had created so little. From ideation, to pencil sketch on canvas, to color mixing to finished work, this 4 x 4 inch painting was the work of a half hour or so. While not a work of which I’m very proud, at a time when I needed it, this little Fire in the Sky filled that need to create.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “What did you make this year? Whether work-related or something more personal (like a song, craft project, or work of art), share your process and the end result.”

Into the Woods

This summer, my husband and I talked about how much we needed a getaway to a cabin in the woods. We meant to plan it for our anniversary in October. We got busy, time slipped away and it never got scheduled.

Our one big vacation in 2012 was an east coast swing, from Annapolis to Philadelphia to NYC. It was exciting and amazing, but in 2013, this is what I want vacation to look like:

Vacation Inspiration Board

About this inspiration board process:
This morning when I woke up, instead of reading up on blogs or diving into a work project as I often do, I got out the scissors, glue stick and a big stack of magazines.

Vacation hadn’t been on my mind recently, but I’m not surprised I went there. I’ve had a long week: 11 hour work days, Think Kit management, Indy Film Fest board meeting.

But then something really surprising happened.

What happened next, you ask?

Just after completing this inspiration board, at the young hour of 7 a.m. I got not one, but two big ideas in a row. The first, a personal creative project for me. I’m not ready to share it yet, but I will say it involved a quick domain purchase. The second, an idea for a new pursuit for my husband.

Will either of these ideas be realized? I don’t know. But any day that delivers two ideas I’m proud of is a good one indeed. Morning crafting, I may just re-visit you more often.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “What do you want your life (or your kitchen, your job, your x) to look like? Create your own inspiration board.”

Hey Big Kids

photo via flickr from victor_nunoTime is a tricky thing. What else ticks on so infinitely on the one hand, yet on the other is preciously scarce. For the individual, there is but one fixed allotment.

I’ve hit that point in life when my reckoning with how I spend my share of the time comes more fiercely and frequently. Not that I’ve carelessly let life slip past to this point, but there’s a different sense of urgency. This shift is less about age than place. As I’ve taken progressively more responsibility at work, the room for extracurriculars shrinks.

I may always want to do more, but getting in the weeds of a new commitment means a sacrifice to the things I hold dear, namely health and family.

How I can get involved in community has shifted toward donor, convener and thinker. Doer must be reserved for the cases when it’s do or die, totally aligned with passion and personal purpose. And even then, I can only really only do one or two well.

Volunteering for specific tasks is a great way to get to know a new organization, and I don’t know many causes who couldn’t use more doers on their team. Connecting in on that higher level of strategic thinker or mentor is a trickier place to start.

So here I am with just a little time and a lot of thought to give. It’s like I’m in that awkward point where I don’t feel confident asking for a place at the adult table, but I’ve long outgrown sitting with the kids, knees knocking the table top.

I’m hovering around the edge of the big kid’s table, looking to match what I have to give with groups working to solve problems and build cool things in this city.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “How do you want get involved in your community this year?”

Image credit: Time On Line by victo_nuno via flickr

Cross Country Friends

As I’ve traveled through the chapters of my life, I’ve crossed paths with some truly incredible people. To say I’ve been lucky in the friend department would be a vast understatement – it’s like I won the lottery AND got struck by lightning time and time again.

This morning as I mulled over today’s Think Kit challenge to interview three people about their favorite moment of the year, I figured this could go any number of ways.

I could have tweeted the question out to the world, and waited to see who would bite. That might have drummed up a response from a near stranger, presenting a kind of cool way to get to know someone new.

I could have gone the in-person route, interviewing those I chanced to meet throughout the day – coworkers, my husband, neighbors. This might have resulted in some pretty interesting conversation, diving deeper than the simple question.

But here’s what I decided to do: send a note to a handful of those wonderful friends I mentioned above from all across the county. These are people I don’t see often and wish I got to laugh with a lot more. As I started typing out my notes, a pretty natural thing happened: I started guessing what their responses would be.

I mean, some of them were low-hanging fruit guesses:
1. Chris got married to his long-time lovely lady.
2. Erin found out she was expecting.
3. April got super-involved in the presidential campaign.
4. Edwin – Now this one was a toss up, but I expected he say getting his new job or a detail by detail account of his favorite meal.

Here’s what they actually said.

Chris Mixson is a dear friend from my college days. By day he practices water law and Indian law in Reno, NV. And when not slogging through legal research he is likely to be brewing beer in his kitchen or making his way to Lake Tahoe. His favorite moment of the year?

“My favorite thing about 2012 was getting married to my best friend, and as a bonus I got to spend an entire weekend with over 100 of my favorite and most-loved people in the whole world!”

It was a gorgeous wedding in Annapolis, and I was glad to be among that group of 100.

Erin Becker and I worked together when I lived in Chicago in 2001-05. She now lives in Portland and is working toward a bachelor’s degree in psychology, in hopes of becoming a licensed marriage and family therapist. In addition to asking her about her moment, I also wanted to catch up on what was going on in her world these days. Her response:

“I love to sing in the shower and hope to one day enter a competition. And my favorite thing about 2012 will be finding out I’m going to have 2 babies next June.”

She’s having twins! I love that I get to call her Double Decker Becker, even from afar.

obama pieApril Duncanson is my long-time bestie. She lives in Philadelphia, knits up a storm and thoroughly enjoys cooking vegan delights.

To my query she said:

“Favorite thing about 2012 was a day. A Tuesday. A Tuesday in November. I watched my newly American husband cast his first vote, opened a campaign office at 6 a.m. that I didn’t close until 20 hours later, drank champagne from the bottle, and reveled in success.”

So far I was 3 for 3! Pretty darn good.

Edwin Castillo really surprised me with his answer. I really thought he’d fire back with his favorite meal. I mean, random food pic texts from him are not out of the norm and he has a bigger appetite than anyone I know. He not only takes beautiful pictures of food, but he draws a cupcake on his credit card slips to leave behind for his server AND takes a picture of that. When my husband and I head back to Chicago for a visit we always get together to share a good meal. Edwin’s favorite moment?

“Out of all the things that happened in 2012 my favorite was the Space Shuttle Endeavor’s parade through LA. It was a great video to watch and it must have been amazing to see the shuttle in person.

It’s cool and sad at the same time knowing that the United States had once regularly explored space trying to find if other planets are habitable and it’s sad knowing that the funding for such notions aren’t as important as weapons of war or large salaries.”

It was pretty cool to be able to guess some of these, then to get totally surprised as well. It was good for the soul to check in with old friends too.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt:“Interview 3 people about their favorite moments of the year. Share what you heard.”

 

Soundtrack of 2012

I may have a tie on my hands. Forget about a top 5 list. There were a few honorable mentions, but nothing else new in 2012 approaches these two albums in my mind.

A man & his violin.
If I were to go on iTunes counts alone Kishi Bashi would hands down win my favorite album of the year with 151a. NPR has given him plenty of love, and even if you haven’t heard his name, you might recognize a few songs that have been used in commercials from some mega-brands.

During his show in the intimate Joyful Noise Recordings space in the Murphy Building I could only think how sorry I was for all of the people who weren’t there to experience it. This man gives new meaning to the one man band.

Then there’s Hospitality.
My music picks last year almost all had a harder edge. This namesake album may sound light and breezy, but the lyrics are a perfect twisted balance. I can listen to this album pretty endlessly, and it’s become one of my go-to picks when I really need to get work done.

What were your top pick(s) of 2012? It’s about time for a music shopping spree, so keep ’em coming!

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
I wrote To Freedom and Health! about today’s official prompt on the SmallBox blog, and so I chose one of the lifeline prompts for today’s Think Kit. “What band new or old did you discover this year?”

A Hello Away

At SXSW earlier this year, I couldn’t get over how many amazing people were just a hello away:

I want to meet all of you tweet

I had similar responses at local events like TedxIndianapolis and We are City Summit, in which I got overwhelmed and a bit awe-struck by all of the great minds gathered in one room. I go to these things in part for the presentations, but more so for the interaction and meeting new people, the good stuff that happens in the hallways between sessions.

I go because I never know who I might meet. It could be that the most interesting person I meet in 2013 isn’t on my radar yet. It might be that it’s someone I already know a little, but don’t really know.

It’s hard to pick just one. Like I said, I want to meet all of you.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt:“If you could meet someone new in 2013, who would it be? Or would you rather spend more time with someone you already know?”

Unreachable

Most days you’ll find me attached to a phone, responding Pavlovian-style to its every blip and beep, with large swaths of time hunched over a computer screen. Sometimes I’m so enamored with tech that I don’t notice it, other times I pine for more peace, a slower pace and recognize the unhealthiness in this constant stimulation. For anyone who works in the web world, I think the occasional break is essential to remember what it feels like to be and think without the crushing clutter of the internet, countless feeds and distractions.

Today wasn’t my first digital hiatus, but this one was a little different. Typically I plan them during vacation or long weekends when I put the rest of regular life on hold too.

The first pang came early. I missed a potentially cute cat instagram opportunity with Mr. Lumpkin pawing at the undecorated Christmas tree. From this, I could quickly move on. Will the internet crumble if it isn’t fed more cute cat pics? I think not.

And then my husband wanted to look at our budget for December. Uh oh. Total fail by noon. I logged in to my bank app, checked balances and such, and managed to sign off without checking email, facebook or the like. All was not lost.

Then came errand-running time. I haven’t gone grocery shopping sans iPhone since I don’t know when. During my trip, I missed a call from Louie (who wasn’t privy to the little experiment I was running), asking to add starch to the list. Oops. That extra trip could have been avoided. Annoying, but I’ll probably find something else we need.

But then there was this: I braved the gym without the luxury of my own music. Let me tell you something. My gym plays what must be the world’s most deplorable pop. I suffered through a remix of The Banana Boat Song and something that sounded like they sampled the whistle of a tea kettle. I can’t un-hear these tragic things, and don’t soon hope to revisit an unplugged gym trip.

Admittedly I overdo it on the screen time, and I like reminders like this of life unattached. I don’t want to live all my days full of splintered experiences, wherein one lovely moment documented means I’ve lost several others forever. I want those days that are blissfully free, unreachable. Just not on those simple days when I’m grocery shopping and hitting the gym.

And don’t worry internets, I’ve got plenty of great photos of my remarkably ginormous cat. In lieu of that missed morning pic, I offer up this beauty:

big tabby cat, mr. lumpkin

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt:“Unplug for an hour, a half day, or a whole day. Choose a time that feels a little uncomfortable. How did you feel? What did you do? Reflect on your experience. How much did you unplug this year? How does this experience make you feel about unplugging in the coming year?”

Inside Out

Long ago I read about a fringe religious, cult-like group. I forget the name entirely, and most of what I read of a long list of practices this group espoused. Their commitment to daily fresh air, however, stuck with me.

I didn’t track it, but I’d wager I made it outside for purposeful outdoor time 90% of the days this year. (By purposeful, I mean something more than the quick walk from my house to my car or things of that nature).

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All of this outdoor time led to a few discoveries:

  • I won’t melt if I run in the rain.
  • A new favorite picnic spot under a gazebo.
  • Getting fresh air before 7 a.m. helps me start the day from a calmer state of mind.
  • Listening to records on my patio is a pretty perfect way to spend a weekend afternoon.

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When the going gets rough (sad news, crazy schedules) these were the grounding moments of my year, the times I got my besting thinking done, taking all of that stuff swirling in my head from the inside out.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “Your year in photos. Did one photo encapsulate your year? Maybe it takes a gallery. Go out and take a new one that represents your year if you need to. Let’s see those photos.”