The Reel Deal

Indy Film Fest ReelMy love affair with movies started young. My mom loved watching old westerns, and I remember scraps of them as a sort of backdrop to my childhood. When I saw The Good, The Bad and The Ugly with Indy Film Fest a couple of years ago, I thought it was for the first time. After a few scenes, it all came rushing back, the movie I’d seen some thirty years before.

When we were very small, my sister Kelli and I thought we were sneaky, trying to cheat bedtime to watch movies. We even had a secret code for it – M-R-O, our hilarious attempt at adult strategy. We knew grown-ups spelled things out when they didn’t want kids to understand what they were saying and we thought we could do the same in reverse. MRO, to this day, still means “stay up late and watch movies” in my family.

My dad took Kelli and I to our first films in the theater – The Dark Crystal and the re-release of Disney’s Snow White around 1983. Soon after, we saw Jaws in 3D. We soaked up the good and the bad of 80s flicks, wearing out our VHS copy of Once Bitten with Lauren Hutton and a very young Jim Carrey. Until I was old enough to go out with friends on the weekend, every Saturday night was reserved for one of the cheesy horror flicks that my dad loved so much, followed by SNL.

In high school, I discovered Woody Allen and caught a rare foreign film screening of Like Water For Chocolate on what must have been the one weekend it screened in my hometown of Evansville, Indiana. I credit these, along with Kurosawa’s Dreams, The Graduate, Harold and Maude and a few others for showing me what film can be.

Even with all of that, I’d never have guessed how much of my spare time would be invested in movies. I volunteered for the screening committee for Indy Film Fest a few years ago and it’s been my cause of choice ever since. This year is kind of a big deal – it marks the tenth festival. As an all-volunteer organization, our board is feverishly planning events, rounding up volunteers and seeing to all kinds of details to to make this year bigger and better than ever. After a few years of focusing on marketing, I’m shifting toward fundraising for the organization.

I’m still determining my exact goals, working with the board president and the rest of the team to understand what we need for this year and beyond. Our three to five year plans call for major growth. I admit, I’m dreaming big, like HOLY CRAP, this could mark my biggest professional failure EVER sort of big.

But I also know our attendance and response to film experiences like Roving Cinema and movies at Sun King Brewery have grown tremendously. There’s a passionate tribe of movie lovers that keep showing up, talking movies with us, answering the call when we seek support.

Putting this blog post out into the world is my first step toward what will be a banner year of fundraising for Indy Film Fest. Wish me luck!

Better yet, if you want to help build something amazing for film lovers in Indy, let me know (you can email me here). I’d love to share our vision with you. If you want a few details about corporate support, here’s an overview of some of our opportunities. We’re also trying to raise a little cash to kick start our 2013 programming. Individual donations can be made here.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: What’s one step you can take to support a goal you have for 2013?

 

 

Brain Candy

Keeping the mind sharp is an admirable pursuit. While it’s easy to set a self-learning goal, it can be even easier to let the year pass without acting on it. Posting my goals online gives at least a little extra accountability. So here goes nothing: two new skills I’d like to gain in 2013, and a bonus baking skill for good measure.

Culture Consulting Toolkit.
In 2012, I had the great fortune to work with a couple of SmallBox clients on what we call culture-powered marketing. It was a relatively new line of thinking for us internally, but something we’d be testing on ourselves. With one client, it evolved organically from asking questions and working with them on content strategy. It’s incredibly rewarding to help a company connect the dots, uncover their own culture-starters and begin to blend organizational health, marketing and HR. I’m very much looking forward to adding some new collaborative techniques to my toolkit and sharing these ideas with more people.

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Working conversational Italian.
This one goes a long nicely with my “extracurriculum” project, la dolce vita. Once upon a time, I learned songs in Italian from my voice teacher. It’s a beautiful language to sing in, even when I had no idea exactly what I was saying. When my husband-to-be and I traveled to Italy in 2006, I tried to learn a bit of the language. I could order coffee like a champ, or let someone know if I was on fire, but that’s about it. Louie proposed to me in Florence, steps away from where the above photo was taken, adding to the magic of this place for me. I may only be so lucky as to return once or twice more in this lifetime, but I’d like to learn nonetheless.

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Perfecting macarons. (Or, at least, coming close!)
I tried my hand at an almond version sandwiched with a bitter ganache for a shower once before. They tasted wonderful, but were crackly, all different sizes and otherwise not-pâtisserie-worthy. The picture above features the best of the bunch – I didn’t photograph the lot of them in all their various states and sizes. Since then, I’ve read up and learned after piping the macarons, you must let them rest for 15 minutes before baking. Another tip: trace circles onto a sheet of parchment paper to help with consistent sizing – genius!

When all else fails, there’s always baking.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “What new skill do you want to add to your repertoire in 2013?”

Hello Old Friend

I’ve let my knitting group lapse, after many moons of keeping it going, weekend after weekend. There’s something very grounding and calming about meeting up with friends over hot tea and knitting to end out the week.

I know. I sound like an old lady. Knitting is a great escape from a cluttered brain. Loop into loop into loop into loop. It can be incredibly challenging to work lace patterns, to shape garments. On the flip side, rhythmic and mindless, as in the simple moss stitch scarf I’m working on.

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It’s the same scarf I’ve been knitting on since the spring. Slowly, a few rows here. A few there. I thought I’d finish in time to wear it this winter. There’s time still, I suppose.

I want to finish the scarf, true. But also there’s the gathering of friends I miss. I’ve put the call out there. Here’s hoping that a few of my crafters-in-crime are up for a knit next weekend.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “Make plans with a friend you haven’t seen in a long time.”

 

These Are the Nights

The events that mattered this year were the ones involving a handful of close friends gathering together for a meal. My husband and I have a monthly Supper Club with 3 other couples. Sometimes we branch out and try new restaurants, other times we design a bit of dinner adventure.

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Supper Club at Tibbs Drive-In

There was the Great Rib Showdown, where we gathered at the R’s house, each of us bringing ribs from a different spot in the city (Hank’s brisket stole the show). Then there was the picnic at Tibb’s Drive-In, in which we watched Lincoln Vampire Hunter over homemade goodness.

One summer night, we sat in the glass room of Locally Grown Gardens and watched a storm roll in, dark clouds and hail and all, candlelight flickering on our table. These are the nights I hold onto, the ones that make up a life well-lived.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “What event stood out for you this year? Where was it? who was there? what did it look like?”

2012 was a good year for events, so I thought I’d share a few other favorites.

Honorable mentions:
SXSW Conference (The film part blew my mind. I want that for Indy!)
One Man Two Guvnors in NYC (Seeing an old friend on Broadway is tough to beat.)
24 Hour Web Project with SmallBox for ICAN (Puppies!)
TEDxIndianapolis (So many sharp people in one place.)
Kishi Bashi at Joyful Noise Recordings (One man band, taken to a whole new level, in an insanely intimate space.)
 

Selfie

I tried drawing a self portrait today. To be exact, I drew nine of them. I really didn’t want to give up. I hate giving up.

20121226-231449.jpgBut after much sketching, not one really looked like me.

One came out looking like a very old version of me. There was a sort of zombie-like one. Another bore a striking resemblance to Madonna. I even doodled my dinner and dessert, inspired by the saying, ‘you are what you eat.’

I thought in a try or two I could doodle a quick self portrait. Total folly. It’s much more difficult than I anticipated, an exercise I found to be both humbling and awkward. The pursuit of self-portraiting is not for the faint of heart.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “Draw a self portrait. Get as abstract or as real as you like.”

Family Recipes

Every year during the holidays we pull out my mom’s old recipe book, full of her hand-written recipes, the stuff my family has been making for ages.

The cards are well-used and loved, with kitschy antique stove art, straight from the seventies. We’ve been using this recipe card for our annual Christmas morning breakfast of bubble bread for as long as I can remember.

This is the stuff that makes the holiday, what I look forward to each year.

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bubble bread
This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “Share a photo from your year that highlights giving, thankfulness, traditions or finding peace.”

Mapping a Story

I’ve never mind-mapped to write a story before. Today, I sketched out a mind map for a side project I’m calling Extracurriculum, and was inspired to try it for a short story series idea I’ve been mulling over for a bit. While I haven’t written from it yet, I am inspired by how much more direction I have, how clear the ideas and characters are becoming before writing the first sentence. Why didn’t I give this a whirl ages ago?

I don’t want to share too much detail – I’m pretty private about creative writing until I get it to a certain point. I’m looking at a leisurely holiday break where I’ll have plenty of time to face the page.

For now, it’s movie time for the annual Griswald Family Christmas.

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This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “Mind map a project you want to tackle in 2013.”

Make Goodness

In any given year for nearly twenty years, if asked, ‘What is my purpose in life?’ I would have said: create, create, create.

Just one simple word. I’m incredibly driven by the magical process of thinking > idea! > making. For me, it’s not always clear from whence ideas come, but there they are, begging to be reckoned with, this thing that is uniquely mine.

About six months ago, I had the opportunity to think pretty deeply on my own purpose as part of Factory Week and landed on something close to create, but a little more me: make goodness. It sounds a little silly, but sort of like how I talk.

In thinking on it again, make goodness just sticks as my personal mantra. I think it applies to much of what I value, representing both the grand and simple pursuits of my life:

Writing. A lot. I hope.
Building something really amazing for my favorite nonprofit: Indy Film Fest.
Painting.
Gardening. (I will pickle this year, I will pickle this year, I will pickle… maybe I have a gardening mantra, too?)
Baking.
(you get the idea!)

There were some other words I considered:
I love bringing people together, so I liked connect or convene.

Whether connecting the dots for people when I can tell they don’t get something, or bringing people together that ought to meet, connecting is rewarding stuff. For example, one of my new missions is to match-make co-workers with nonprofits. Finding a good fit does transfer some goodness into the world, so, I’m going to say this is loosely covered by my mantra already.

I love the idea of inspiring others to create, so I considered words like ignite or spark.

I ruled this out because I feel I have a lot of personal making to do before I could really inspire others. Maybe one day.

This post is part of Think Kit by SmallBox
Today’s prompt: “Write a mantra for the year ahead – how you’ll approach it, what you wish it to be. How’d you arrive at the mantra?”